Moving to Bournemouth – what I wish I’d known

After two years here, so far, I’ve discovered that making somewhere feel like home is often about the little things. If you’re thinking about moving to Bournemouth, here are a few things I wish I’d known before arriving.

One of my favourite things about living here has been discovering independent shops and local makers. Trove, a lovely curio shop, is one of my favourite places to visit when I want a little sparkle of joy in my living space, or just in my day. Whether I’m celebrating a university achievement, a personal win or simply trying to cheer myself up after a difficult day, it’s somewhere I can browse for something special for myself or someone else. After two years, it’s also lovely to recognise familiar faces and have a friendly conversation in a familiar environment.

I enjoy exploring the independent vendors in the Arcade too, as well as the local cafés around town. Bobby’s Emporium was another unexpected discovery, tucked away in the Lower Gardens and well worth a look if you enjoy creative finds. And on a sunny day, it’s hard to beat an ice cream or some warm, fresh doughnuts by the beach.

When I need a little perspective, I often head towards East Cliff. Hearing the sea and looking out across the vast expanse of water can make even a difficult day or a tough piece of feedback feel a little less daunting. Whatever the weather, it’s worth the trek to experience nature just minutes away from the bustle of town.

Bournemouth has plenty to discover throughout the year too. The Christmas Market is one of my favourite things about winter here, with so much to browse and a festive atmosphere that makes the town feel particularly special. And you don’t have to stop at Bournemouth itself: neighbouring places such as Westbourne and Poole offer more cafés, scenic spots and opportunities to discover local makers.

Student budgeting isn’t always easy, particularly when you have a heavy workload and limited income. I’ve learnt that the trick isn’t necessarily to stop spending on things that bring you joy, but to understand where your money needs to go first. Food, toiletries, cleaning products and transport are the essentials I prioritise each month. I also travel home regularly, so train fares need to be factored into my budget.

Once those necessities are accounted for, I can work out what I have left for the occasional treat. For me, that might mean a little something from Trove or setting aside money before a makers’ market, where a unique gift or the smell of delicious food can be very tempting! I’m learning to enjoy these experiences more intentionally rather than buying something simply because the opportunity is there.

I’ve also found ways to make my money go further without giving up the things I love. Shopping at places such as Lidl, using loyalty points and discounts wisely, and buying good-quality items that last longer, help me be more economical. I still budget for my favourite little comforts, from quirky teas to sourdough pizza and sandwich pickles. Looking for student discounts at cafés and restaurants, collecting stamp-card rewards and exploring charity shops – particularly around Winton – are other ways to save. They may be small, but they add up incrementally. International food shops can also be worth exploring for fresh ingredients or products you might not find elsewhere.

I took out a student membership with the National Trust too, which gives me opportunities to explore beautiful places in Dorset and beyond. As an IAD student, I love visiting historic houses and discovering the details that make each place unique – as well as a lovely garden to sketch and paint.

It’s easy to spend more than you planned when you’re busy studying. I’ve sometimes been tempted by a meal in the canteen or a nearby café when bringing a home-cooked lunch would have been cheaper. I’ve also bought meal deals simply because I was joining other people. I enjoy spontaneous little treats, but I’m learning that I don’t need to spend as frequently to enjoy myself.

I try to avoid unnecessary printing where I can, sharing my work digitally or presenting it by hand instead. It saves money and paper, particularly when a printed sheet might only be needed for a short tutorial.

Before buying a book for a project, I also check the AUB Library and Ebook Central, as well as Bournemouth Library in town, to see whether I can access it there first. And if money is tight, it’s worth knowing that AUB has the AUBSU Student Pantry in the library to support students who are struggling with food costs. I’ve had times when affording food was difficult myself, and resources like this can make a real difference. There is no shame in using support that is available to you.

Looking back, I wish I’d known how transformative moving to Bournemouth would be. I spent a lot of time worrying about the outcome of my degree and letting fear influence my decisions. While I’m proud of what I’ve achieved academically, some of my most important lessons have come from outside the classroom.

Living independently has taught me about self-respect, self-worth and not measuring everything by a grade. I’ve become more resilient, more comfortable with myself and better at managing my time – although procrastination remains an overeager pen pal! I’ve learnt to navigate feedback and setbacks more professionally, make time for my own passions and balance studying with looking after myself.

By final year, I’ve found it easier to plan meals, gym sessions, self-care and a demanding workload around one another. I’m still learning, but I understand myself and my needs much better than I did when I first arrived. Everyone’s university experience is different, and moving away won’t look the same for everyone. But I’ve learnt that the challenges you face can teach you how to approach things differently next time, and that becoming independent doesn’t mean having everything figured out from the beginning.

When I eventually leave Bournemouth, I hope to take more than a degree with me. I’ll be leaving with a better understanding of who I am, what matters to me and how I want to approach the next chapter of my life. That’s something I wish I’d known before moving here – university can change far more than your career prospects. Sometimes, it changes the way you see yourself.